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Real Homes, Real Messes, Real Life…Link Party Announcement!

Hi all! If you follow me on Twitter or Facebook, you know that I decided to have my first ever link party coming up on Monday, January 17.  Having a link party is scary because you don’t know if anyone will show up to party or not, but that’s ok, I’m putting myself out there.  And I had this idea while in the shower, even the name title, so maybe it was a sign?

I thought this idea would be a fun way to let everyone know that we are NOT perfect, nor do we always have a spotless home like some of the blog photos would make you think.  We are real people who have real everyday messes.  If you ever read blogs and start feeling inadequate or not good enough because their homes are always perfect, stop right there!

And my girl Lakeitha from Home to Three Duncan Boys is a great example of what real daily living is like…

I love it when people keep it real.  Reading blogs can really make a person feel less than, or not up to par with their home sometimes.  But just love what you have and not wish all your furniture was from Pottery Barn (but that would be awesome yes?) or wish you had a live-in nanny who could clean up all of these messes.  But that would be awesome too. :)

Soooo, will you join the party on Monday the 17th and help us all remember that we are normal and not inadequate?

And how CUTE is that button??  My sweet friend Beth from The Stories of A 2 Z made it for me and it’s perfect. Thanks so much Beth!  So feel free to use the uber cute button on your post–I know she’d appreciate it. :)  It’s just a regular jpeg image so you can copy it easily.  Hopefully it makes you feel like partying with a cute button displayed.

So capture your messes on camera, get your posts ready, spread the word, and I’ll see you all on Monday!  I’ll post the party up at 7:00 a.m. (central) Monday morning, but if there are problems just be patient because I’ve never used the linky tool thing before.  I’ll get it fixed somehow.  And probably by Beth.

p.s. – You can find me over at Honey We’re Home on Friday, January 14 talking organization. :)

xxoo,

Decorchick!

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  1. Beth@A2Z says

    January 13, 2011 at 9:58 am

    I’m here for you girl. Both in my mess and if you’re in a computer mess! Looking forward to keepin’ it real with you!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:36 pm

      Yay!! Thanks girl!

  2. Tara says

    January 13, 2011 at 10:03 am

    I LOVE this idea!!!! Because seeing everyone else’s not perfect reminds me that not perfect can be just perfect! =) Count me in!!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:36 pm

      Exactly! :)

  3. stefanie says

    January 13, 2011 at 10:09 am

    Love this!!!!!

  4. Cortney says

    January 13, 2011 at 10:15 am

    Love this idea! It is hard sometimes when you look at blogs and often I find myself wishing I had this or that…this will be great to see real life-not staged photos!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:37 pm

      It can be hard Cortney. I can’t wait to see everyone’s!

  5. nikki @ nikkisnacs says

    January 13, 2011 at 11:03 am

    Oh, fun! As long as I have internet and can find all of my necessary cords, count me in. We will have just moved so it should be interesting. If I don’t make it, it will at least be fun to see everyone else when I get back up and running.

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:39 pm

      Good, hope you have internet!!

  6. Paula JC's Loft says

    January 13, 2011 at 11:17 am

    OMG what a fantastic idea! Totally agree with everything you said. Most blogs I read “style” the pictures before taken, which I do also, but sometimes you start to think that is how their house looks all the time. LOVE this idea!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:39 pm

      Thanks Paula! I’m excited about it. :)

  7. fortheluvofboys says

    January 13, 2011 at 11:53 am

    Very fun! My house is as real as it gets – I’ll definitely join in!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:40 pm

      Perfect! :)

  8. Jennifer says

    January 13, 2011 at 11:55 am

    Fun, Fun! I’ll be joining as well. : )

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:40 pm

      Yay, thank you!!

  9. Lakeitha Duncan says

    January 13, 2011 at 12:40 pm

    I just died!!! To see my mess on your website felt totally different than seeing it on my own! Maybe because I have less followers!

    Thanks for the shout out girl! I can’t wait to link up!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:40 pm

      Haha that’s funny. Thanks for letting me share!

  10. T.bird @ Get Nestled In says

    January 13, 2011 at 1:12 pm

    Thanks to your mini-miracle therapy session (haha), I will be at the partaaay!!! :)

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:41 pm

      Yayyyyyy!!

  11. Candace says

    January 13, 2011 at 1:51 pm

    Haha, I tried a link party once my first week of blogging. I didn’t have any type of readership so I am not sure what I was thinking. I ended up filling it up with links “on behalf” of other people myself! :)

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:41 pm

      Aww well that’s ok!

  12. Nelly says

    January 13, 2011 at 3:35 pm

    I love this idea and can’t wait to participate!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:42 pm

      So glad you will be participating Nelly!

  13. Theresa says

    January 13, 2011 at 3:42 pm

    just posted this to my little world, I might be over dressed for the party, have you seen this mess? Thank you for reminding me that it’s ok to be normal (you know, normal, it’s where you live in a complete state of chaos 24/7 if you have kids….). you rock!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:42 pm

      You are so cute. Love that post!!

  14. Ami w/AliLilly says

    January 13, 2011 at 5:19 pm

    I’m so glad your doing this!! I can’t wait to see that I am NOT the only one!!! I’ll be there!! Mess -n- all! :)

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:43 pm

      Yay, can’t wait!!

  15. Carmel@OurFifthHouse says

    January 13, 2011 at 5:57 pm

    Hi I’m a new follower of yours! This sounds like fun! I know exactly what you mean about looking around blogland and feeling like you just don’t measure up somehow. It’s strangely comforting to know that everyone has a mess to deal with :)

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:44 pm

      Carmel, it is comforting isn’t it? Weird. :)

  16. Shelly@makingthemomentmatter says

    January 13, 2011 at 5:59 pm

    Oh this is perfect! Thanks for posting about this! I just starting blogging and feel like my home is a mess compared to all of the pretty blogs! This is one link up I know I can participate in!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:45 pm

      Yay!! So glad you will be joining!

  17. Chrissy says

    January 13, 2011 at 6:03 pm

    Now this sounds like a Linky Party, I will be joining in on . I have a lot of “real” around here, even with no small children, just 2 teens.
    Looking forward to sharing!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:45 pm

      Woohoo! Thanks so much for participating!

  18. Pattie says

    January 13, 2011 at 6:10 pm

    I think that’s a fun idea, My home has to stay neat and all the beds have to be made ever day, Because I have a nail studio in my home and it’s all one level , Sometimes I wish I didn’t have all that on my shoulders…. But I do have one dirty little secret.. Well it might be more than little, you all can see it when I join the party.. can’t wait….

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:46 pm

      Oh awesome, I can’t wait to see your dirty secret. :) Your bedroom is lovely by the way!

  19. PattieTaylor says

    January 13, 2011 at 6:20 pm

    One more thing I just posted this on my facebook, I’m a newbbie and I can’t see, to grab any buttons But I’ll figure it out soon…

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:47 pm

      Ok, let me know if you need any help Pattie.

  20. Sharmin says

    January 13, 2011 at 6:20 pm

    What a great idea! This is such a great way to bond, share, and celebrate our imperfect lives.

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:47 pm

      Amen Sharmin!

  21. Brittany (aka Pretty Handy Girl) says

    January 13, 2011 at 7:27 pm

    Hmmm, what to post about. Maybe I’ll take a picture of some nice clean room. Wait 30 minutes and take a picture of the mess that ensues after 2 boys have been unleashed on it.

    Brittany
    http://www.prettyhandygirl.com

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:47 pm

      Oh that would be fun! :)

  22. SheilaG says

    January 13, 2011 at 7:31 pm

    What a greeeaaaat idea! If I had a blog, I would have so many photo ops to show you! :D

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:48 pm

      Since you don’t have a blog Sheila, feel free to post your pics up on my Facebook fan page if you’d like. :)

  23. vintagevine says

    January 13, 2011 at 7:35 pm

    I’ll be here in all my clutter glory…there are so many places in my house that are out of control and scream “real life”, it will be hard to choose. Great idea! I am taking a button.

    • Decorchick! says

      January 13, 2011 at 7:49 pm

      Yay!! Thank you so much! Can’t wait to see all the clutter. :)

  24. vikki says

    January 13, 2011 at 7:57 pm

    Thanks so much. I was just thinking yesterday that I need to stop looking at blogs because I feel so inadequate. can’t wait to see real life.

  25. Lisa @ Shine Your Light says

    January 13, 2011 at 8:21 pm

    Ummm…I’m pretty sure friends will show up for this party! One thing I have in my house is the REAL LIFE thing going on!!

  26. debbiej66 says

    January 13, 2011 at 8:29 pm

    Hey Hey, I am a firm believer in the saying in the old Field of Dreams flick lol…you know “if you build it they will come” line? You have that party. People will show. I sure know I will. I love strutting my stuff on these parties.

    Thanks for keeping it real with the post above. Take Care!
    Deb
    http://dejarenew.blogspot.com

  27. PaulaMontalvo says

    January 13, 2011 at 9:04 pm

    Oh……I am so on this one! I have mess all the time. :) Three kids and five dogs.(don’t ask) assures there is always a mess somewhere……unless company is coming!! Great idea. Blessings Paula <3

  28. Courtney {a thoughtful place} says

    January 13, 2011 at 10:40 pm

    Ughhhhh! “mess” is my normal. I am so happy to see this because I actually feel like I am spinning out of control with my little messes. Now I can showcase them! yahooooooo!!

  29. Judith @ Creating Balance says

    January 13, 2011 at 10:53 pm

    oh this party is soooo up my alley! can’t wait!

  30. Denissa says

    January 14, 2011 at 12:23 am

    I love this idea! It is very easy to look at perfect pictures/blogs and feel bad! My kids are out of school on Monday so it should be REAL easy to get some great pics to post! :)

  31. Lori says

    January 14, 2011 at 10:43 am

    This is such an awesome idea! Can’t wait till Monday! I already have several photos to share. I’ve been sick the past few days so my house has been a real mess!

    Lori : )
    Thrifty Decor Mom

  32. Lauren@SimplyLKJ says

    January 14, 2011 at 5:05 pm

    I love this idea! After more than two months of uniforms, boxes, Christmas, our basement is just lovely!! It is on my to do list this year. We love to refer to it as the dungeon. See ya Monday!!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 14, 2011 at 8:57 pm

      Oh yes, can’t wait to see the dungeon!!

  33. Tara says

    January 14, 2011 at 6:01 pm

    I’m in as well, I’m oddly excited to take photos of my messes!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 14, 2011 at 8:56 pm

      Yay!!

    • Decorchick! says

      January 14, 2011 at 8:57 pm

      Yippee!!

      • Tara says

        January 16, 2011 at 10:17 pm

        Is there a time for this or whenever we get to it?

        • Decorchick! says

          January 16, 2011 at 10:20 pm

          7:00 a.m. tomorrow morning the post and the linky will be up. You can link up whenever you’d like, I’ll keep it open all week. :)

  34. Allison@HouseofHepworths says

    January 14, 2011 at 7:13 pm

    Sounds like fun! I can’t wait. Is this something you are doing weekly, or just a one-time deal?

    ~Allison @ House of Hepworths

    • Decorchick! says

      January 14, 2011 at 8:56 pm

      One-time deal right now. We’ll see how it goes then determine frequency of future parties. :)

  35. NicolePhillips says

    January 14, 2011 at 7:35 pm

    That’s so true. You should see me when I take a pic, making sure garbage isn’t in the background. My daughter laughs at me.

  36. Em says

    January 14, 2011 at 11:20 pm

    I LOVE this idea and will be posting a link on my blog’s FB page!

  37. 1 Funky Woman says

    January 15, 2011 at 1:17 pm

    Oh man do I have a couple doozies for you! I will be there to link up!

    Megan

    http://1funkywoman.blogspot.com

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