Hi all! If you follow me on Twitter or Facebook, you know that I decided to have my first ever link party coming up on Monday, January 17. Having a link party is scary because you don’t know if anyone will show up to party or not, but that’s ok, I’m putting myself out there. And I had this idea while in the shower, even the name title, so maybe it was a sign?
I thought this idea would be a fun way to let everyone know that we are NOT perfect, nor do we always have a spotless home like some of the blog photos would make you think. We are real people who have real everyday messes. If you ever read blogs and start feeling inadequate or not good enough because their homes are always perfect, stop right there!
And my girl Lakeitha from Home to Three Duncan Boys is a great example of what real daily living is like…
I love it when people keep it real. Reading blogs can really make a person feel less than, or not up to par with their home sometimes. But just love what you have and not wish all your furniture was from Pottery Barn (but that would be awesome yes?) or wish you had a live-in nanny who could clean up all of these messes. But that would be awesome too. :)
Soooo, will you join the party on Monday the 17th and help us all remember that we are normal and not inadequate?
And how CUTE is that button?? My sweet friend Beth from The Stories of A 2 Z made it for me and it’s perfect. Thanks so much Beth! So feel free to use the uber cute button on your post–I know she’d appreciate it. :) It’s just a regular jpeg image so you can copy it easily. Hopefully it makes you feel like partying with a cute button displayed.
So capture your messes on camera, get your posts ready, spread the word, and I’ll see you all on Monday! I’ll post the party up at 7:00 a.m. (central) Monday morning, but if there are problems just be patient because I’ve never used the linky tool thing before. I’ll get it fixed somehow. And probably by Beth.
p.s. – You can find me over at Honey We’re Home on Friday, January 14 talking organization. :)
xxoo,
Decorchick!
Beth@A2Z says
I’m here for you girl. Both in my mess and if you’re in a computer mess! Looking forward to keepin’ it real with you!
Decorchick! says
Yay!! Thanks girl!
Tara says
I LOVE this idea!!!! Because seeing everyone else’s not perfect reminds me that not perfect can be just perfect! =) Count me in!!
Decorchick! says
Exactly! :)
stefanie says
Love this!!!!!
Cortney says
Love this idea! It is hard sometimes when you look at blogs and often I find myself wishing I had this or that…this will be great to see real life-not staged photos!
Decorchick! says
It can be hard Cortney. I can’t wait to see everyone’s!
nikki @ nikkisnacs says
Oh, fun! As long as I have internet and can find all of my necessary cords, count me in. We will have just moved so it should be interesting. If I don’t make it, it will at least be fun to see everyone else when I get back up and running.
Decorchick! says
Good, hope you have internet!!
Paula JC's Loft says
OMG what a fantastic idea! Totally agree with everything you said. Most blogs I read “style” the pictures before taken, which I do also, but sometimes you start to think that is how their house looks all the time. LOVE this idea!
Decorchick! says
Thanks Paula! I’m excited about it. :)
fortheluvofboys says
Very fun! My house is as real as it gets – I’ll definitely join in!
Decorchick! says
Perfect! :)
Jennifer says
Fun, Fun! I’ll be joining as well. : )
Decorchick! says
Yay, thank you!!
Lakeitha Duncan says
I just died!!! To see my mess on your website felt totally different than seeing it on my own! Maybe because I have less followers!
Thanks for the shout out girl! I can’t wait to link up!
Decorchick! says
Haha that’s funny. Thanks for letting me share!
T.bird @ Get Nestled In says
Thanks to your mini-miracle therapy session (haha), I will be at the partaaay!!! :)
Decorchick! says
Yayyyyyy!!
Candace says
Haha, I tried a link party once my first week of blogging. I didn’t have any type of readership so I am not sure what I was thinking. I ended up filling it up with links “on behalf” of other people myself! :)
Decorchick! says
Aww well that’s ok!
Nelly says
I love this idea and can’t wait to participate!
Decorchick! says
So glad you will be participating Nelly!
Theresa says
just posted this to my little world, I might be over dressed for the party, have you seen this mess? Thank you for reminding me that it’s ok to be normal (you know, normal, it’s where you live in a complete state of chaos 24/7 if you have kids….). you rock!
Decorchick! says
You are so cute. Love that post!!
Ami w/AliLilly says
I’m so glad your doing this!! I can’t wait to see that I am NOT the only one!!! I’ll be there!! Mess -n- all! :)
Decorchick! says
Yay, can’t wait!!
Carmel@OurFifthHouse says
Hi I’m a new follower of yours! This sounds like fun! I know exactly what you mean about looking around blogland and feeling like you just don’t measure up somehow. It’s strangely comforting to know that everyone has a mess to deal with :)
Decorchick! says
Carmel, it is comforting isn’t it? Weird. :)
Shelly@makingthemomentmatter says
Oh this is perfect! Thanks for posting about this! I just starting blogging and feel like my home is a mess compared to all of the pretty blogs! This is one link up I know I can participate in!
Decorchick! says
Yay!! So glad you will be joining!
Chrissy says
Now this sounds like a Linky Party, I will be joining in on . I have a lot of “real” around here, even with no small children, just 2 teens.
Looking forward to sharing!
Decorchick! says
Woohoo! Thanks so much for participating!
Pattie says
I think that’s a fun idea, My home has to stay neat and all the beds have to be made ever day, Because I have a nail studio in my home and it’s all one level , Sometimes I wish I didn’t have all that on my shoulders…. But I do have one dirty little secret.. Well it might be more than little, you all can see it when I join the party.. can’t wait….
Decorchick! says
Oh awesome, I can’t wait to see your dirty secret. :) Your bedroom is lovely by the way!
PattieTaylor says
One more thing I just posted this on my facebook, I’m a newbbie and I can’t see, to grab any buttons But I’ll figure it out soon…
Decorchick! says
Ok, let me know if you need any help Pattie.
Sharmin says
What a great idea! This is such a great way to bond, share, and celebrate our imperfect lives.
Decorchick! says
Amen Sharmin!
Brittany (aka Pretty Handy Girl) says
Hmmm, what to post about. Maybe I’ll take a picture of some nice clean room. Wait 30 minutes and take a picture of the mess that ensues after 2 boys have been unleashed on it.
Brittany
http://www.prettyhandygirl.com
Decorchick! says
Oh that would be fun! :)
SheilaG says
What a greeeaaaat idea! If I had a blog, I would have so many photo ops to show you! :D
Decorchick! says
Since you don’t have a blog Sheila, feel free to post your pics up on my Facebook fan page if you’d like. :)
vintagevine says
I’ll be here in all my clutter glory…there are so many places in my house that are out of control and scream “real life”, it will be hard to choose. Great idea! I am taking a button.
Decorchick! says
Yay!! Thank you so much! Can’t wait to see all the clutter. :)
vikki says
Thanks so much. I was just thinking yesterday that I need to stop looking at blogs because I feel so inadequate. can’t wait to see real life.
Lisa @ Shine Your Light says
Ummm…I’m pretty sure friends will show up for this party! One thing I have in my house is the REAL LIFE thing going on!!
debbiej66 says
Hey Hey, I am a firm believer in the saying in the old Field of Dreams flick lol…you know “if you build it they will come” line? You have that party. People will show. I sure know I will. I love strutting my stuff on these parties.
Thanks for keeping it real with the post above. Take Care!
Deb
http://dejarenew.blogspot.com
PaulaMontalvo says
Oh……I am so on this one! I have mess all the time. :) Three kids and five dogs.(don’t ask) assures there is always a mess somewhere……unless company is coming!! Great idea. Blessings Paula <3
Courtney {a thoughtful place} says
Ughhhhh! “mess” is my normal. I am so happy to see this because I actually feel like I am spinning out of control with my little messes. Now I can showcase them! yahooooooo!!
Judith @ Creating Balance says
oh this party is soooo up my alley! can’t wait!
Denissa says
I love this idea! It is very easy to look at perfect pictures/blogs and feel bad! My kids are out of school on Monday so it should be REAL easy to get some great pics to post! :)
Lori says
This is such an awesome idea! Can’t wait till Monday! I already have several photos to share. I’ve been sick the past few days so my house has been a real mess!
Lori : )
Thrifty Decor Mom
Lauren@SimplyLKJ says
I love this idea! After more than two months of uniforms, boxes, Christmas, our basement is just lovely!! It is on my to do list this year. We love to refer to it as the dungeon. See ya Monday!!
Decorchick! says
Oh yes, can’t wait to see the dungeon!!
Tara says
I’m in as well, I’m oddly excited to take photos of my messes!
Decorchick! says
Yay!!
Decorchick! says
Yippee!!
Tara says
Is there a time for this or whenever we get to it?
Decorchick! says
7:00 a.m. tomorrow morning the post and the linky will be up. You can link up whenever you’d like, I’ll keep it open all week. :)
Allison@HouseofHepworths says
Sounds like fun! I can’t wait. Is this something you are doing weekly, or just a one-time deal?
~Allison @ House of Hepworths
Decorchick! says
One-time deal right now. We’ll see how it goes then determine frequency of future parties. :)
NicolePhillips says
That’s so true. You should see me when I take a pic, making sure garbage isn’t in the background. My daughter laughs at me.
Em says
I LOVE this idea and will be posting a link on my blog’s FB page!
1 Funky Woman says
Oh man do I have a couple doozies for you! I will be there to link up!
Megan
http://1funkywoman.blogspot.com